Access

Prov. 4. 23 “Guard Your heart with all diligence for out of it comes issues of life”

“Access! Access!! Access!!!”

I can hear myself talking to her. She complains but then she always does.

In anything we commit to, there’s bound to be many others which try to distract or derail us. However, these detractors/distractions are only as powerful as we make them.

Here’s an analogy, you’re in a committed relationship but there’s this fine beau or belle who’s around. Now, getting distracted is a function of how much access you grant this person to you.

Going further, in our psychological or/and mental health, nothing can bring you down if you don’t give it that access.

The access we give to people and things determines the effect they can have on us. A friend saying the same hurtful thing hurts way more than a stranger who may say the exact same thing. The difference is the friend has more access to us.

Having learnt of the power of Access there is need for adequate Access Control. Shutting out that which tries to derail us enables us to focus on our set goals and objectives.

This access control is to be done by you and no one else. Because you’re the one whose thoughts, mental, and emotional well-being is at stake. So, take care of you and that which you hold dear.

Don’t forget to keep being,

The Answer Men Seek (T.A.M.S)